How to know if someone really cares about you
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Someone who cares will ask you how your day is. Not out of some sort of obligation, but because they genuinely want to know. Someone who cares will tell you things. Some people share more than others, but someone who cares will tell you things that matter to them, no matter how small that thing is. Someone who cares will listen. But a person who cares will listen to you regularly, because your opinions matter to them.
To get the scoop, Business Insider spoke to two relationship experts, including Dr. Suzana E. Flores told Business Insider. Pay attention to the person who's always there for you, even when the task at hand is not outwardly a fun one, like helping you move. Flores said. Kailen Rosenberg, elite matchmaker and founder of The Lodge Social Club , a dating application with a three-step vetting process that launched earlier this month, agrees. Harvard psychologist Zick Rubin found a correlation between eye contact and love.
There is no guaranteed way to know if a person truly loves you, but there are a few signs to read in order to figure out what is on the mind of your loved one. If you would like to know if the person you love truly loves you back, then you have to pay attention on how the person acts, what they say, and what they do when you are together. Though love may mean something different  to every person, there are many ways to tell if a person truly loves you, just has a crush on you or just being momentarily infatuated with you. If you want to know if a person truly loves you, pay attention to whether they talk about having a future together with you, like future vacations you might take or what your future children will look like. You should also pay attention to the type of compliments the person gives you. If they give you meaningful compliments about your character and your personality, they probably love you.
1. They have fun with you even if the task at hand is not fun, per se
A lot of people would brag about how many friends they have. However, once you start questioning them about how many of their friends really care about them, they start to wonder and become really uncomfortable. - Maybe this guy seems too good to be true.
Fact: No one really knows how to tell someone you love them for the first time. Navigating the vague, frightening, thrilling waters of a new relationship is beautiful, raw, exciting and terrifying. As enamored as you are by your newfound love, you're also hungry for a commitment, for the verbal affirmation that the heart you're increasingly laying on the line is going to be safe. But there's no faster way to stomp out the fire of new love than by making grandiose promises too soon, and no faster way to drive yourself into an anxious fit than by remaining unsure of how someone really feels about you. You want to make your feelings known, but you don't want to be too hasty with declarations that might imply promises you're not ready to make.