I hate people at work
I Hate People!: Kick Loose from the Overbearing and Underhanded Jerks at Work and Get What You Want Out of Your Job by Jonathan LittmanFace it, whether your company has 10 employees or 10,000, you must grapple with people you cant stand in the office. Luckily Jonathan Littman and Marc Hershon have written I HATE PEOPLE!, a smart, counter-intuitive, and irreverent turn on the classic workplace self-help book that will show you how to identify the Ten Least Wanted--the people you hate--while revealing the strategies to neutralize them. Learn to fly right by the Stop Sign (nay-sayer) and rise above the pronouncements of the Know-it-None. I HATE PEOPLE! will teach you how to carve out more time for yourself by becoming a Soloist--one of those bold individuals daring to work alone or collaborate with a handful of other talented people....while artfully deflecting the rest.
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How to Work with Someone You Hate
It's understandable that, in all the time we spend with coworkers and bosses, we might have let a bad habit or two slip. Many of these office faux pas, however, may be avoided — you just need to know what it is that drives everyone around you nuts. It's not like they just sprung this job on you," she said. Experts say you should never eat lunch at your desk because it's unhealthy. Repeatedly responding to suggestions with a pessimistic or contrary attitude can be construed as being uncooperative, Randall said. Before long, people will go out of their way to avoid you.
Working with someone you hate can be distracting and draining. Pompous jerk, annoying nudge, or incessant complainer, an insufferable colleague can negatively affect your attitude and performance. The detested co-worker is a familiar archetype. Next time you find yourself shooting daggers at the person in the cubicle next to you, consider the following advice. Your response to your dreaded co-worker may range from slight discomfort to outright hostility. Goleman says the first step is to manage it.
Worse than that, sometimes we end up working with people that we absolutely hate and wish more than anything that we could vaporize them into oblivion. Although making people disappear is not a good coaching option, there are ways of dealing with the issue that can help the problem disappear. Be Brutally Honest with Your Coworker Confronting the person that is making you sick and telling them really nicely what they are doing to make your workday awful can sometimes get them to stop. A lot of the time, people are completely oblivious to how their behavior is making people feel. Bringing their lousy behavior to their attention can be a wake up call to get them to change. Rise Above the Bad Workplace Behavior Is there any way to ignore or avoid this person that is driving you crazy?
You can get along with a coworker you dislike - with some effort. A nice place to work is defined by the people working there and the workplace practices and.
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2. You’re a Know-it-All
Work would be totally awesome if you could always work with people that you like. These are the people who you not only respect in the workplace but are happy to socialize with outside of work, too. Wouldn't that be a dream come true? Well, maybe, and maybe not. Some people like to keep a complete separation between their work and their social life, others are comfortable inviting their coworkers to share their social time.
Worse than that, sometimes we end up working with people we absolutely hate and wish we could vaporize into oblivion. Although making people disappear is not a good or viable! Much of the time, people are completely oblivious to how their behavior makes other people feel. Bringing their lousy behavior to their attention can be the wake-up call they need to change their ways. Reframe Your Perspective A good coaching exercise is to focus on the good qualities this person possesses. Try making a list of all the good things she does and intentionally notice those things during the day. Use Honey Try to connect with the person to develop a closer relationship.